Words for a real moment
What to say to someone who lost their job
Job loss can land as shock, worry or disappointment. Start by separating the event from their worth and let them choose what comes next.
Words you can use
A ready-to-send version
I’m sorry this happened. It does not change how I see you. I can listen for ten minutes or simply send a quiet hello. You do not need to explain anything, and no reply is required. You can decide later today.
A useful approach
Acknowledge the job loss without treating it as a failure or demanding a plan.
Offer a short message, a ten-minute call, or quiet voice-note company.
Leave the offer open for today; do not send another message until tomorrow.
Make it fit your person
Change the relationship, timing and tone
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