Words for a real moment
What to say when someone is unwell or recovering
A good check-in should not create another health questionnaire. Keep it warm, ordinary and easy to ignore until they have energy.
Words you can use
A ready-to-send version
You have been on my mind. I can listen for ten minutes or simply send a quiet hello. You do not need to explain anything, and no reply is required. If today is not right, that is completely fine.
A useful approach
Offer care that does not require them to explain symptoms or progress.
Give them a choice between a brief chat and a message they can answer later.
Leave the offer open for today; do not send another message until tomorrow.
Make it fit your person
Change the relationship, timing and tone
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